Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Found my sis, she's ok but does't want to talk about what/why/when concerning her MIA status for 2 days. I don't pressure her, I figure she'll talk when she feels like it, in the meantime I guess we are just all suppose to pretend that didn't happen....but now she's not talking to me at all, she lost her job and somehow that is my fault...she didn't show up for work, but thats my fault? Anyway, I am actually kind of enjoying the silence, I know where she is, know that she is being taken care, so I'm okay w/ not talking to her. My mom is also avoiding me like the plague (Also kind of nice) I've asked her to clean up her apartment (my basement) for 2 wks now and she just dismisses me, my husband is ocd so it is driving him crazy that there is all this mess down there, if she doesn't clean it up by friday (that will be 3 wks since I first asked her to) I'm afraid she might have to go. I resent the fact that I need to tell my mom to clean her room and she resents that I am telling her to clean her room, it's a no-win situation. My husband called her yesterday on her cell and told her that she had to clean it up, so we'll see, she really resents taking orders from him,  but like I said I actually am enjoying some of these people avoiding me like a plague right now.

im sorry to hear about your sister hope you can find her and shes ok let me know how its going i care