Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

May 22, 2013, 6:28 am

What can I say? Neil Sedacka was a real Sage, besides being a stylish dresser and fantastic vocalist. Looks like you are the one who might need to yank a few band aides off. I think I will get my advice from Weslo on this, too. He knows how to trim down that deadly visceral fat...

May 22, 2013, 6:19 am

Ooh, that video was touching, my dear. Wait, wait, was she really alive at the end? So there was a happy ending after all and Tommy Boy saved her! I don't think I will share that video with my booboo bear, Otis. Anyway, when will you be done with school? Should be winding up, right? Do you have a summer job life guarding or pushing an ice cream cart? Or mortician assistant, perhaps would be more fun for you.

May 22, 2013, 3:30 am

 This is awesome.

May 22, 2013, 1:55 am

What a charming picture!

May 22, 2013, 1:51 am

Dear Jane,
I am sure that a bear in your yard was an exciting and paralyzing sight. Hugs Mary XX

May 22, 2013, 1:40 am

Ive been doing alright, yourself? Still rlly rough but less panic attacks. Im still having a rough time though.

May 22, 2013, 1:14 am

Hello?

May 22, 2013, 1:13 am

Oh boy I bet you are sooo excited! Someone from my in laws town just won that 600 million jackpot. It was bought in Zephyrhills Florida. My husband and his family moved there in the late 70s. His sister still lives there but it wasn't her. Still waiting to see who it was.

May 21, 2013, 11:24 pm

Happy birthday!

May 21, 2013, 11:22 pm

Thanks for the request hope all is well.
erik

May 21, 2013, 10:51 pm

Hey how have you been?

May 21, 2013, 9:49 pm

thanks for the comment, always glad to see one from you. in fact I have visited your page and read comments not intended for me. hope you don't mind. I see this week you have mentioned members that left the tribe which you wanted to stay, as well as members that you wish would leave the tribe but are unable to tell them. I am highly qualified to advise you on how to tell them, and I offer my compact friendship list as my credentials. one bunny photo calls for another






More Fantasy Comments

May 21, 2013, 9:18 pm

did you tell Sheri what I'd said about the floors? Hahahaha.. I am rotten.

May 21, 2013, 9:17 pm

I got it!!!! AWESOME - thank you thank you thank you!!! YAY!!!

May 21, 2013, 9:16 pm

ty my friend.. I've missed you.

May 21, 2013, 9:15 pm

It takes time my friend. It doesn't just happen in a day. It takes time, effort, patience and a lot of failures. Think of it a little like a child learning to walk.. they generally fall, stumble, get up, fall, tip over... some crawl a very long time before standing... some hold onto the coffee table forever before they stand on their own. One of the very best things you can do to help progress is to learn to be nice to yourself. See yourself as a second person, someone more precious to you than anyone on the planet. Someone who is trying their best but is struggling... someone who needs caring and patience. Treat yourself gently, with compassion for all the times you stumble or fall. Whatever form that takes... soothe yourself inside and be kind. No one can truly progress out of this while inside they bully themselves. Being hard on yourself feeds the OCD and robs you of your natural strength and internal wisdom. If you are naturally emotional and reactive that is ok. You are OK on a fundamental level. You have issues and struggles but the real you is totally ok. I am highly reactive overall, but I have trained myself to stop and look at things as best I can. Sometimes I fail, sometimes I go back to holding onto the coffee table if that makes sense. It is all ok. All people tend to have "rules" in their heads about how things should be but these are just our own perceptions. There are no rules of progress... just life. The harder you try to live "as you should" the more you suffer. Learn to befriend yourself and see all the "bad things" you believe are flaws as just parts of you as much as the good parts - neither is who you are, just a part. Work on seeing yourself as worthy of happiness and kindness first. The rest will come. You are doing more and better than you think. You are alive so there is more right than wrong with you! You come here and you seek out answers or avenues in other ways too... you keep trying, despite the pressure inside not to. Be proud of that. You can do it because you ARE doing it. Ty for the comment.

May 21, 2013, 9:02 pm

sometimes we don't need to know why.. if it helps, it helps. It could be that I try to remain hopeful or maybe that there are people who do well so it is more possible to do well yourself... or maybe it resonates and you feel heard or something. Either way, as my therapist says, if it isn't harmful and it helps you, go for it. Thanks for the nice comment.

May 21, 2013, 7:52 pm

17days till Florida...

May 21, 2013, 7:50 pm

Next phase, New wave, fast way, anyway, it's still ROCK N ROLL to me...

May 21, 2013, 7:47 pm

SUP...