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ADD & OCD together , are sometimes too much
The
last
couple
of
days
have
been
kinda
rough
,
Jeremy's
OCD
has
been
a
litte
more
intense
the
last
couple
of
days
&
we've
butted
heads
more
than
we
usually
do
.
There
are
times
when
my
ADD
&
Jeremy's
OCD
together
is
just
too
much
&
too
intense
for
me
to
deal
with
@
the
moment
.
Jeremy's
OCD
gets
into
over
drive
that
he
doesn't
know
how
to
stop
him
self
from
preforming
all
his
rituals
&
that's
when
things
between
us
getting
really
intence
because
I
get
incredibly
aggrovated
with
Jeremy
feeling
this
need
to
have
everything
perfect
,
perfect
,
perfect
-
I
just
get
exhausted
with
Jeremy
pulling
me
into
his
rituals
,
now
I
don't
mind
him
ritualizing
something
in
another
room
but
when
we
are
in
same
room,
it
gets
rather
annoying
,
especially
when
Im
on
the
computer
bloging
-
the
other
thing
that
gets
on
my
nerves
is
that
Jeremy
feels
that
everything
of
mine
has
to
be
in
the
place
he
wants
it
to
be
in
,
I
tell
him
he
respects
my
stuff
,
I'll
respect
his
stuff
,
I
don't
go
into
his
closet &
change
the
places
where
he
puts
things,
then
there
no
reason
to
move
my
things
.
Now
I
understand
part
of
OCD
is
needing
to
be
in
control
,
how
ever
Jeremy
has
to
realize
that
he
can't
control
me
,
im
not
a
child
,
he's
not
my
parent
-
I
don't
control
him
,
he's
a
grown
man
what
he
does
is
his
business
-
now
for
the
most
part
im
a
pretty
patient
&
understanding
woman
,
I
love
Jeremy
with
all
my
heart
&
I
could
never
imagine
myself
with
some
one
else
,
but
there
are
times
when
Jeremy's
OCD
gets
just
a
little
too
intense
for
my
ADD
brain
to
process
.
Everything
having
to
be
done
in
a
certain
way
,
everything
having
to
be
checked
&
rechecked
3
times
,
it
just
gets
too
stimulating
for
me
&
that's
when
I
just
stop
what
ever
it
is
that
I
am
doing
with
Jeremy
&
I
go
to
another
room
to
do
something
else
,
because
Im
not
going
to
burn
my
time
all
day
long
worrying
or
obbessing
about
if
that
particular
thing
I
was
doing
was
done
properly
.
Then
Jeremy
gets
up
set
&
says
im
not
helping
him
,
when
really
it
has
nothing
to
do
with
that
,
Im
just
not
going
to
continue
to
try
to
help
him
with
something
if
he
doesn't
like
my
way
of
doing
things
-
I
can't
do
things
his
way
,
because
Im
not
him
.
He
can
get
up
set
all
he
wants
but
Im
not
going
to
kill
to
myself
trying
to
be
perfect
to
make
some
one
else
happy
.
Jeremy
thinks
that
I
am
just
being
lazy
,
when
it's
not
that
@
all
,
I
just
have
my
times
when
his
OCD
just
over
stimulates
my
ADD
&
it
just
stresses
me
out
&
frustrates
me
even
more
-
I
have
learned
to
just
take
a
break
from
what
ever
it
is
that
I
am
doing
that
I
am
getting
frustrated
with
,
Jeremy
on
the
other
hand
will
push
himself
no
matter
how
frustrated
he
gets
,
he'll
mess
&
mess
with
what
ever
it
is
that
he's
working
on
until
he
gets
it
like
he
wants
it
&
when
he
gets
like
that
&
get
irritated
I
just
back
off
and
go
into
another
room
,
because
there
no
talking
any
common
sense
into
stuburn
man
.
I've
told
Jeremy
many
times
,
that
I
understand
his
reasons
for
the
OCD
&
all
the
rituals
but
that
there
are
times
when
I
just
want
him
to
do
his
thing
in
another
room
,
I
want
to
be
left
alone
to
do
my
own
thing
(
like
blog)
im
not
saying
that
Im
not
accepting
of
the
OCD
because
I
have,
(
if
I
didn't
accept
his
OCD
I
wouldn't
still
be
with
him
afer
almost
5
yrs
being
back
together)
IF
I
truly
didn't
accept
Jeremy's
OCD
&
understand
what
his
triggers
are
I
wouldn't
be
the
patient
&
understanding
woman
that
I
am
.
I
love
Jeremy
very
much
,
he's
got
such
a
wonderful
&
big
heart
and
he's
always
trying
to
help
people
,
even
if
that
means
putting
himself
last
,
Jeremy
is
incredibly
loyal
which
one
of
the
things
that
made
me
fall
in
love
with
him
,
not
to
menton
the
fact
that
life
is
never
dull
or
boaring
if
Jeremy
(
JR)
is
arround
,
he's
always
suprising
me
&
he's
always
taken
care
of
me
,
makes
sure
I
get
what
ever
I
need
,
he's
always
making
sure
my
mom
is
taken
care
of
,
so
how
can
I
not
love
him
-
but
there
are
times
when
the
OCD
&
my
ADD
just
makes
things
a
little
too
intense
.
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