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Why is my husband so inconsiderate

By: DPenn
Mood: Angry
Date: Oct 05, 2008
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Well, he has done it again.  He is once again not caring for me but only himself. 

His ex-wife has to get prescriptions for their 18 year old son for his diabetes.  It's not my problem.  (sorry to sound like I don't care but she screwed me a couple of years ago when my husband went to Iraq and I was paying his child support out of the money I was getting to live on because we had made a notarized agreement (my idea because I said his kids need their child support and he was a little behind when I met him) that as long as she would not hold him acountable for back child support we would pay her and I never missed one.   So anyway, when he went to Iraq she went behind our backs and told the family support services that he owed her money and started having it taken automatically out of his check and didn't tell us and was just going to let me pay her double.  But I found out so I quit writing her checks.  Well they were taking out $75 a month more now (total $425 a month)  and I couldn't do anything about it.  Anyway, since she is a liar and a cheater I don't know that she is not defrauding the system and getting paid by two insurance companies but these checks come to her for their son's diabetes and she has my husband sign them over to her because they have his name but her address.

He insisted that I write her a check from our account because she said the bank is getting difficult for her to cash these checks and on top of all that the check says "Pay to the order of Corrie Hazlett" on the back of it  (she wrote that on it already) and I am freaking out that I will not get the money back in my account and I will be out $85.00.  I hate her; she is a bitch and I am calling the bank at 7 am and if this money doesn't go back into my account I will write a stop payment but then I will be out the money for that.  He seems to think there is no problem, so if there is no problem with doing this then why can't he go to the bank and get money out of his atm card and give it to her and not make me use the money I use to pay the bills including his truck payment.

I told him that if I don't get the money back in our account I will not pay his truck payment and I won't.  Nobody messes with me and gets by with it!



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From: DPenn
October 6, 2008, 3:34 pm

Update:

I called the bank and, of course, they told me what I already knew.  They would not cash the check because she wrote her name on it.  So I went to the bank early this morning and put a stop payment on the check, which cost me $15. 

I called my husband's ex-wife and told her that she was going to have to get with him about the money because I can't cash it because she put her name on it.

Well I was there when she called my husband and she said, "your lovely wife called...."  Basically they were talking amongst themeslves about what a bitch I am and how stupid I am for stoping payment on the check. 

So I started yelling at her to the phone that if she wasn't such a liar and cheater I might be able to trust her and they, of course, both acted like I was crazy.

Maybe I am.  I don't care because I know I am right.



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From: jonathan
October 6, 2008, 2:37 am

 

 Your husband is so inconsiderate....because that is the way Jesus made him. So blame Jesus!   ; )



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October 5, 2008, 8:46 pm

omg im so sorry he sounds just like mine all for me and f you right im so sick of it please stop by so we can talk miss you



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